Top Flirting Tips

Sam was a simpleton. He was a nice chap and had a pleasing and pleasant personality. People around him were very fond of him. In spite of possessing such a magnetic and pleasing personality, Sam was troubled. He was shy around girls and had an immense difficulty in communicating with them especially when it came to flirting. Martha, who was Sam’s friend, in order to help him, gave him some of these genuine flirting tips for shy guys…

Many men and young boys find it really difficult to communicate with a person whom they are attracted to, especially when in the form of flirting. The shy nature of many men also becomes a hindrance in such a situation. Before we proceed to flirting tips, let us understand what flirting means.

Flirting is basically a way of communication between people who are attracted to each other and is a totally natural behavior. The activity of flirting is totally natural, and you would find that it as old as existence of man. Flirting is a difficult mode of communication because apart from normal speech, many different indications and signs, like body language and tone of speech become an integral part of this type of communication. Believe it or not, even animals, especially mammals, flirt. Hence, do not shun the fact that flirting is a totally natural phenomenon. Sometime back I read a column in the newspaper that gave some good flirting advice for shy guys and girls. The columnist made an excellent comment by saying “…flirting is a mode of communication…we human beings were in fact born for it…god wants us to flirt…” Might sound a bit absurd but you know what, it is true!

Flirting Tips for Shy Guys #1

First among the flirting tips for shy guys is – find a teacher. A teacher, as in not some love guru, who would chalk out a plan for you to get a date, that’s all nonsense. What you need is plain and simple advice from a female friend of yours, who would teach you and tell you how to flirt or rather communicate with a person of the opposite sex. Your friends would not only help you to overcome shyness but would also help you to understand how to communicate sincerely. With appropriate help and advice you will realize that flirting is something that should not be taken up very seriously, but at the same time, it must not be too casual but simple and sincere.

Flirting Tips for Shy Guys #2

Presentable, pleasant and pleasing are the 3 magical P’s of flirting. It is very important that you are presentable when you approach a girl or a lady. The person whom you are approaching should not feel repulsed. Hence, self grooming is very important. Self grooming includes shampooing your hair, shaving, grooming your beard or mustache, wearing crispy well-ironed shirt, dressing up properly and perfectly, flossing your teeth, etc. Seems like a very long list, but would not take more than half an hour every morning. This grooming would make you not only presentable, but would make you feel clear and confident. For personality grooming you might start off by reforming your speech, or your behavior on the whole.

Flirting Tips for Shy Guys #3

Moving on to the next P, that is pleasant. To become a pleasant person, first of all you need to learn to be happy. The key is start smiling and laughing. In the world of modernization we tend to worry a lot, unnecessarily. A simple smile would make the person whom you are approaching, feel pleasant. After all who does not like a happy and smiling guy! Smiling and being happy not only makes YOU happy and pleasant, but also tends to help you in becoming more confident and purposeful. It enhances your personality to a great extent.

Flirting Tips for Shy Guys #4

Pleasing is another very important aspect of flirting. Pleasing does not mean just some random flattery, but it means being sincere and true to yourself and the person whom you are flirting. For example, if you use a pick up line, let it be nice and natural. A nice pick up line (that is obviously not repulsive), when used truly and sincerely brings out a very positive vibe and that too naturally.